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Why I can’t remember people?

August 30th, 2008

I don’t really understand whats wrong with my ability to remember people. I am not able to recollect names when I see people and end up in really embarrassing situations.

Situation 1

Last month when I was in my village. I went to a shop. I lived in that village for almost 4 years. Had a few friends there. I saw a person approximately of my age, approaching towards me. I suspected him as one of my friends. The face looked familiar but I couldn’t recollect his name. Even after trying my best, I couldn’t.

Friend : Aur kulbir bhai kya haal hain?

Me : badhiya hai .. tum sunao.

By that time he guessed that I was not able to recollect his name.

Friend : Tum to bhool hi gaye yaar?

Me : Nahin yaar aisi kya baat hai. Bas thoda chehra dhyan nahin aa raha …

I was like WTF. Chehra dhyan nahin aa raha … naam pata nahin … wtf is left to forget about this person.

This happens quite frequently even in IIIT. I remember all the names, all the faces. But I forget the god damn mapping :(

Situation 2

Once a guy from UG3, XYZ was in my room regarding some Linux problem. I happened to minimize all the windows and saw a friend request from Tushar Nandwal on gtalk. I knew that Tushar Nandwal was from UG3. I just asked (for the very sake of asking) XYZ, “Tushar Nandwal tumhare batch mein hi hai na”. And he said “Sir, main hi tushar nandwal hoon.”. I was like WTF. This was one of the (because I keep facing them frequently) most embarrassing situations. Why the hell I even asked that question ?? :( (

I knew XYZ by face. I knew that there is a guy Tushar Nandwal. But I never knew XYZ and Tushar Nandwal are same :( May god help me :|

PS : 3rd post on the occasion of blogging day :D

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  1. August 30th, 2008 at 21:16 | #1

    May be you require something like DNS for mapping names with faces :-)

  2. August 30th, 2008 at 21:23 | #2

    Very weird problem :P
    cvit ppl can help u with face recognition..

  3. August 30th, 2008 at 22:51 | #3

    hahaha …. I’ve got a very solid reason for this trouble of yours….. you were Ojasvi’s room mate for two years !!!! :O …. but it’s funny whenever it happens…….. :D

  4. shrikant nigam
    August 31st, 2008 at 00:56 | #4

    man i face the exact same problem , really dont know how to cope with it :D

  5. August 31st, 2008 at 02:30 | #5

    The same thing happens with me, many times you have a whole conversation with someone, later to ask your friends the name of the person you just talked to.

  6. Sandeep Saini
    August 31st, 2008 at 03:04 | #6

    Atleast mujhe to nahi bhoolega .. I hope ki kam se kam Saini to yaad rahega ..

  7. August 31st, 2008 at 04:11 | #7

    @Asif man!! never thought of that .. sounds good :D
    @Srijan a combined help from cvit and ltrc would help i think :)
    @Pankaj Shut the F*** up :P
    @Shrikant, Himank if u come across a solution, do let me know !
    @Sandeep kya baat kar rahe ho sir jee …

  8. August 31st, 2008 at 07:22 | #8

    Haha.. The second situation was hilarious :D

  9. August 31st, 2008 at 10:22 | #9

    This is to me ALL the time.. ALWAYS! In fact one day after watching boston legal, i got scared that it might be a precursor to madcow!
    But turns out we are not alone..
    http://www.dailytrojan.com/news/2004/10/07/Opinions/If.You.Cant.Remember.Names.You.Are.Not.Alone-744905.shtml
    , and,
    http://ezinearticles.com/?The-7-Reasons-You-Cant-Remember-Names&id=1225381

    Sigh of relief , ain’t it ? :D

  10. Abhishek Sainani
    August 31st, 2008 at 20:57 | #10

    I too face such problem, but in a different way. I take some time to remember a person’s face and name and when I remember it, I almost never forget! :)
    I can understand how embarrassing it can be, after reading the second situation!

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